Food and Culture

6 Examples of Table Manners from Around The World

13 Jul 2020

dining etiquette
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One of the pleasures of travelling is experiencing different cuisines. The joy of food is universal, but less universal are the rules of eating. This can lead to discomfort if we don’t understand that other cultures simply observe different table customs to us.

Here are some tips on how to observe table manners in 6 cities around the world.

 

Examples of Table Manners from Around The World

 

1. Happy Eating in Addis Ababa

 

In Ethiopia, individual plates are deemed needless, so folks share from one big communal plate. Hand-feeding each other is commonplace too. Mealtimes are joyous occasions in Addis Ababa, so you will be expected to relax and join in the joyous, noisy cacophony.

 

 

2. Catering Customs in Copenhagen

 

In Denmark, it is customary not to wolf down the last piece of food. Instead, half it and nibble on it until there are only crumbs left to demonstrate enjoyment until the very end. And the Danes don’t ‘do’ milk in their tea. So don’t even bother asking in Copenhagen.

 

3. Social Graces in Seoul

 

Respect for one’s elders is extremely important in many countries but especially so in Seoul. In South Korea, the oldest person at the table will be encouraged to begin eating first as a sign of respect and children shouldn’t touch the kalbi or fish dishes until the parents have taken the first bite.

 

4. Dining Culture in Bucharest

 

In Romania, the oldest woman at the table will usually be served first and in Greece, the elderly members of the family receive their food before everyone else. So, politely await your turn – unless you actually are the oldest woman at the table.

 

5. Old Habits in New Delhi

 

If you were to be invited for a meal in a traditional home in New Delhi, the male of the house would be served first. Indeed, his wife may not sit down to eat until everyone else is either well underway or finished.

It is also customary in some parts of India for the head of the household to make offerings. No one will begin until the food is first offered topitru devathas (forefathers) and a ball of rice may be left for ancestors.

 

Examples of Table Manners

 

6. Attending a Meal in Moscow

 

In Moscow, you would be expected to present your host with a gift. But make sure it isn’t an expensive one. Gifts will not be accepted if they cannot be reciprocated. And heaven forbid a delighted diner displays their pleasure by licking the knife or fork in Russia. Muscovites consider this a must-not.

 

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